In today’s installment I will go over quite a few questions that you can ask a girl that you really, really like. Or, wanna knock out that back.
Now remember this post is designed to get a conversation going with the girl of your dreams. These questions will ensure that you never run out of things to talk about. So forget about those awkward moments of silence and really get to know her in one go!
If you are already really good at conversation, these questions can act as fun little conversation starters or just random topics to chit-chat with her about. Girls like when you talk about everything with them so the more topics you have that are interesting to her the better off you will be.
So without further ado, here are the absolute best questions to ask her to learn about her while getting the conversation going at the same time. BELIEVE ME!
25+ Questions to Ask Her to Pique Her Interest and Keep Her Talking
You can chime in about yourself while answering these questions or you can make it all about her. You can give her the opportunity to ask questions or even correlate her experience with those of your own. Tell her when you agree or where you’ve experienced a different outcome.
The idea behind this is to pique her interest and keep a cool conversation going while learning about her and getting her to relax with you. Relaxation is the foundation of getting a woman turned on and truly interested in you. So without further ado, let’s get started!
- If you could be anywhere in the world, where would it be? Does she have fantasies of traveling—does she like it better back in her hometown?
- What do you want out of life? Questions like these let her know that you’re genuinely interested.
- Where would you like to be in 10 years? Getting a feel for her life goals and what she wants will let you know if you two really align.
- Do you prefer people or things? Is she materialistic? Does she enjoy expensive things or does she value relationships more?
- What do you regret the most out of life? This question will let you know more about her values and what she sees as appropriate and out of line.
- Would you choose money over love? This goes back to materialism. Does she prefer things or people?
- Do you have any hobbies? This can possibly spawn date ideas and ways to connect in a deeper way.
- Are you into health and fitness? This is great small talk especially with the right girl. If she isn’t and you are you can offer to train with her to get her even closer to you.
- What are your favorite personality traits in men? Does she like or loathe guys like you? This is a quick and easy way to find out.
- What are your family dynamics like? Is she close with her loved ones or does she disdain them?
- Do you like the outdoors or are you more of a homebody? Again, this can help you mold chill days/nights better to suit her and what she likes so that she’s comfortable around you at all times.
- What are your favorite weekend activities? Is she hanging out with friends, staying inside or catching up on work?
- Do you have any pets? Some girls don’t like animals some love them. If you own any pets this is a must-ask question.
- What do you do for a living? Can’t expect to lay with someone you know nothing about. What does she do to pay the bills?
- If you could turn back the hands of time and do life over, would you? This could help you learn about her past and where she really wants to be and what she really wants out of life.
- Are you a college student? Small talk but always relevant.
- Do you have a degree? Ties into the last question—if she has a degree ask her what she’s doing with it.
- What is your favorite kind of cuisine? Italian, Mexican, Ethiopian?
- Do you like sweets? If you’re a health nut this may bring up some red flags but if she likes candy and you eat clean you can teach her some healthy sweet recipes that will give her a sugar fix without the guilt.
- If you could be anything you wanted, what would it be? A singer, musician, artist, doctor—what? This would be a fun roleplay idea.
- What do you like doing to unwind? Knowing what she does to relax will help you know how to relax her to ease her into the mood.
- Do you prefer personality over looks or vice versa? Is she more a physical traits person or personality person.
- Who is your celebrity crush? Letting her gush about a celebrity she thinks is hot will let her know that you value what she thinks. Do not tell her about anyone you find attractive unless it’s her. You need her to feel like she’s the only girl in the world.
- What relaxes you the most? Soothing music, walks on the beach—a massage.
- What are your pet peeves? This is the quick way to not irritate her or instantly join her blocked list.
- What is your favorite kind of music? So you know what to play for her when you’re ready for the next step…
- What would your ideal date night consist of? A great date is the beginning of a night of amazing sex.
- Do you have any allergies? Questions like this remind her that you are genuinely interested in her and really want to get to know her.
- What do you consider a major turn off? The more you know about her sexual preferences the more you can turn her on and give her moments she’s bound to remember.
- If you could have any man on the planet who would it be? If she mentions you then she really likes you—if she doesn’t ask her why she likes the other guy so much. If he is similar to you she might be interested…
10 Flirtatious Questions to Let Her Know You’re Sexually into Her
Be warned that these questions aren’t for all kinds of girls. Certain girls will cringe or immediately lose interest if you ask some of these questions so think with your thinking brain before popping one of these ‘flirty’ questions—if they backfire don’t say we didn’t warn you.
Also, these are not conversation starters. These questions are only to be asked once you have a feel for your girl and who she is and are ready to dig deeper into her persona.
- What is your top sexual fantasy? Let her go wild with this—it lets you know what she’s like sexually and how you could please her in bed.
- If you had to choose, which position could you stay in all night? This is just chit-chat. The point is to see if she’s okay with talking about sex.
- Do you wear lingerie? If so what kind— what color panties does she like to wear? Is she a lace girl or plain cotton?
- What instantly turns you on? Talking about getting turned on just might do the trick.
- What do you generally wear to bed? Does she sleep in panties? A pajama set? Nude?
- Where do you like being touched the most? The answer may give you a glimpse at just how sensual your girl is.
- What is your favorite part about sex? Does she love oral? Being penetrated? Foreplay?
- If you could have anything you wanted right now, what would it be? Tell her to use her imagination.
- Where do you love being kissed the most? Neck, shoulders, forehead? Ace? LOL!
- What was your most intense orgasm like and how did it happen? Perhaps you can use her response to recreate this moment and make it better with out how to make a girl squirt guide.