So listen up, these are the top 9 ways chicks let you know that they like you. We all know that girls communicate differently than guys. The lapse in communication can leave us lost in translation and not knowing what to do with ourselves—or her for that matter.
You see, girls go through many emotions so sometimes it can be difficult to know if what you are seeing is legit or not. So how can you really know if she likes you? Keep reading to learn the main signs that she’s into you.
Sign #9—She Always Looks at You
The things that girls do don’t seem to add up to many guys for a reason. If we feel a certain way we say it, if we want something we go after it. Girls like to safeguard their feelings and who they allow into their life. If they even allow you to see that they like you that’s amazing.
One of the major signs that a girl likes you can be seen in the way she looks at you. Her pupils will be dilated. She’ll seem very interested and depending on her personality, very shy. She smiles with her mouth and eyes. But here’s the catch, if she really likes you, she will more than likely look away if you look at her.
Sign #8—She Always Touches Herself in Front of You
She touches her arms, hair or face when she’s with you. A lot of girls do this subconsciously when they are very relaxed and comfortable with someone. She wants to let you know that she likes you but women tend to be more conservative than men when it comes to approaches. If she constantly plays with her hair while conversing with you or touches your arm or hand while laughing and talking with you she more than likely has a crush on you.
Sign #7—She Laughs at Everything
This one is an absolute given. There has never been, in the history of mankind, a girl who doesn’t laugh at everything someone they like says. This sign can be used to gauge whether or not a girl likes you or even if they are losing interest. When girls stop liking you they will start to seem unamused by you and even downright annoyed.
If she is super giggly with you then you know she’s interested.
Sign #6—She Leans into You
When girls are into you they always want to be the center of attention. One way they make this happen is by making sure they are faced towards you. They always want to get you to look at them. Remember—girls often need validation so if she is really going to speak up and let you know how she feels about you, you’re going to have to play into her hands a little bit.
Don’t be afraid to lean into her as well or even playfully gently nudge at her arm with yours and even smile at her. It lets her know that she’s getting noticed and that you just might be into her too.
Sign #5—She Sits (or stands) Close to You
A lot of girls feel obligated to give losers the time of day. How to know if she legit is interested? She wants to be close to you. She has to feel you near her. Girls require a lot of stimulation—one of the reasons why some feel like women and men are very different. Girls value physical communication meaning connecting face to face. Holding hands, kissing—all that jazz. But that’s for another article.
The trick to interpreting this sign is realizing that literally anyone can be physically close to you. To interpret the difference you will have to combine other tips—is she facing you, is she chatting with someone about you? Is she smiling at you? Does she keep brushing against you? If so, she probably wants you to approach—girls don’t generally make the first move because they tend to care heavily about how guys will feel about them.
Sign #4—She Draws Attention to Her Lips
If you’ve already spent some time with her and she’s showing an increased interest in you she will begin to draw attention to more than her presence—she’ll want you to kiss her. You’ve probably noticed that a lot of the body language that girls who like you have will hint that they want you to make a move, and while this isn’t desirable to all guys you have to eventually come to realization that there are major social stigmas placed on girls who make the first move or seem ‘aggressive’ in the arena of relationships. I personally think a lot of girls don’t approach us guys because they are afraid of the negative connotations of women approaching men.
There are ways that you can get her to make a move instead of you but again, that’s an article for another day.
Sign #3—She is Always Trying to Make Plans
Girls are notorious for wanting to spend time, no matter what their personality is. Some girls will even want to be at your place or hers even if you are each doing two entirely different things. They just like to know that you are close. This generally means that they feel safe around you and enjoy your presence.
This isn’t to say that if she doesn’t offer to chill with you she isn’t interested, there are girls that like having their own space and alone time. These girls are normally passed off as uninterested but the truth is that they are simply less dependent on physical presence of their guy. Again, this isn’t a bad thing.
Sign #2—She Likes Touching You
She likes hugging you and lingers for a bit. She enjoys wrapping her arm around yours and walking closely right beside you. Physical touch is one thing that a girl who likes you will cherish and always put on display. If she touches you, she most definitely is feeling you.
Sign #1—She Brags about You to Everyone
If word travels back to you that she can’t stop talking about you, you know that it’s official. She is totally into you. When girls like a guy they can’t stop talking about them. It’s just one of those things that they always do. You’ll suddenly notice that more people from her circle know who you are and are interested in learning about you.
These signs are the most basic and yet most commonly displayed by girls when they like someone. If she is really into you some of these signs (if not all) should be present.