Reality dictates that it is quite difficult or even almost impossible for women to have an orgasm quickly compared to men. Premature ejaculation has become a reason why a lot of relationships have spiraled downward. If you also experience this type of problem, not being able to last more than 2 to 4 minutes right into sex, do not worry, you are not alone. The good news is that, there are ways on how to hold ejaculation.
Can you hold off your orgasm?
In order to cultivate sexual stamina so that you can easily last longer, all you need is to possess the right mindset first. This is something that should be taken quite seriously because it is very important. This may not be the same as using male enhancement creams, sprays and ointments to give you that instant stamina, but it is all about cultivating the right techniques and the mindset during intercourse which actually differentiates you from other men who reach ejaculation earlier as expected.
The thing is that, developing this attitude is mostly mind over body. Guys who often ejaculate soon only allow their bodies to take charge rather than mind controlling their bodies. Most often, they just allow their sexual desire to get them too excited to the point that they are not able to control their orgasms, regardless of trying their best to possibly distract their minds. When that happens, it may already be too late to control ejaculation.
Also, attitude plays a vital role in this case. You need to be honest with yourself, and most especially, to your partner. If you feel that you are not able to satisfy her in bed, you need to talk it out so that you can both find ways to solve the issue. Perhaps your partner gets you too excited, then she might want to do her part to ease your problem. You may also want to ask her how you can satisfy her even better, and then work from there. It is a general fact that women really appreciate men who are brave enough to face issues like these.